Happy Marriage Secrets

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Good Communication

The secret of getting along in marriage lies in two people applying the principle embodied in this verse from the Bible: “And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise” (Luke 6:31).
This is a workable formula! And amazingly, it is easier to carry out than to trying to figure out the other person.
Scott and Ann found this out. Like most people you know, each longed to be appreciated and have their viewpoint respected. They discovered that the rule Jesus gave is just as effective today as when He spoke it.
Scott sought counsel because he was puzzled over his unhappy marriage. He and Ann, his wife, never exchanged harsh words. He kept his complaints against her to himself. He had looked at her personality and her idiosyncrasies from all angles and tried to do what would bring a balance between them. They never argued. But with all their efforts at adjustment, there was little happiness. Their approach did not work because they simply could not figure each other out. To do unto others as you would have them do to you is the opposite of trying to figure each other out.
What is it that you would like others to do unto you?
  • adjust to your likes and dislikes
  • express appreciation for favors done
  • praise you for your achievements
  • forgive you for your failures
  • pay attention when you talk
  • not hold you accountable for your behavior
  • let you set your own rules
  • provide money to spend as you wish
  • tell you the truth
  • maintain a neat househttp://manwifeanddog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/marriage-cartoon-proposal.jpg

    Building Harmony in Marriage

    Cooperation creates the oil that makes an effective relationship possible. And the golden thread that runs through that oil is love. Not the kind of love the world offers, that is stimulated by other people and other things, but the kind of love that God gives you. His love enables you to let go of your own way. . . .
    When two people come to the place where they have the same mind, the same judgment, the same outlook, and the same goals, yes, they have given up their individuality, but they don’t lose their creativity. The relationship is centered on cooperation rather than opposition. They are working together .

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